Onine dating works–at least it does for many people, and it can work for you.  Many women are terrified to meet a man she has been chatting online with.  Women remember the terrible things that have happened in the past.  They have a right to be scared and extremely careful.  Who knows, it may be vital for them.  So, what is a nice guy supposed to do?  You aren’t a pervert, sexual predator, or a weirdo; as a nice guy you are just looking for the woman for you.

When a man is looking online for a woman he must be patient.  He must keep conversations online light and full of fun until she feels comfortable chatting with him.  Do not push to meet this woman in person and do not push for any personal information such as her real name or where she lives.  You must be patient.

Along with being patient a man must be absolutely truthful about his physical appearance.  He must be truthful about what he does for a living because if the chatting goes further like a physical date she will find out anyway.  A good solid relationship can never be built on lies and deciet.  If a man does lie he will always be starting over.

Using pictures of yourself will take away all the presumptive thoughts.  As they say, “A picture is worth a thousand words.”  Use full body and head shots of yourself.  Let her see what you look like doing several different activities.  Remember–if you were really dating she would see what you really look like.

As time goes by and the discussion has been opened about meeting in person for the first time make sure it is in a very public place.  It should always be in daylight and the suggestion she bring a friend along will provide relief and confidence in her.  You really don’t have anything to hide and you have told her the truth about yourself.  And she has already seen many pictures of you doing various things.  The only thing left is to make the meeting as safe as you can for her.